TITLE: How Can EQ Help You Win the Negotiation?
AUTHOR: Susan Dunn, MA, The EQ Coach
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URL: http://www.susandunn.cc
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Laptop Battery "How Can EQ Help You Win the Negotiation?"
by Susan Dunn, MA, The EQ Coach
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mood" had arrived, and it was time to ask him. It was a mystery to me, but gradually I began to pick up on what indicated a "bad mood" in my dad, and what indicated a "good mood," and how to use it to my advantage. Eventually I became adept at putting him in a good mood; like most girls, I learned to work my dad over pretty good, and at least some of the time I got what I wanted. At other times he would say, "That's not going to work on me young lady." Like playing "Hot Cold" it helped me refine my people skills, and be more subtle.
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easy to tell when Mom or Dad was angry and, like most kids,
I learned to head for hills at such a time. Not only wasn't
it a good time to ask for anything, it wasn't a good time to
be around at all. If you want to win, you have to know when
to fold them, as well as when to hold them.
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pretty well because it's important to their survival, figuratively, if not literally. Knowing when Mom's in a bad mood and staying out of her way at those times makes life easier, and approaching her for something when she's in a good mood makes it more probable you'll get it. We also learn that we can sometimes wear a parent down when they're tired and they'll give in, and that sometimes kisses and compliments will work where reason and logic don't. Kids are pretty good little negotiators, and the ones who read social cues the best, and are most attuned to the emotions of those around them, do the best.
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Desktop Computer So when we grow up and enter the work world as sophisticated adults does all this become irrelevant? Quite to the contrary. There are always people we want things from, just as there are people who want things from us, and while there's a prevailing myth that business runs on logic, reason and analysis, it is about relationships and negotiations, and emotions quite often determine the outcome. It's an old adage that people do business with people they like and trust. However you define those words, and how you separate out the components, it is an emotional response, not an intellectual one.
Notebooks Cognitive intelligence is important - knowing the facts, getting the figures, and doing the homework - but emotional intelligence can be the deciding factor. Whether you want a promotion, a million dollar contract, a new partner, information from someone, or their cooperation, your success depends upon how well you understand and manage the emotional force field around the situation. My Mom was right. Studies show that people do react more favorably when they're in a good mood, so timing is everything. Do you know how to tell when someone's in a good mood? And what if they're not? Do you know how to put someone in a good mood?
Lenovo Great salespeople know how to bring the good mood with them. They arrive with a good story or positive anecdote, a gift, a joke, or even food. Their intuition, an EQ competency, tells them what will work on each person. Maurice E. Schweitzer, professor of operations and information management at Wharton, calls this "non-task communication." He has researched this phenomenon, and says, "In negotiation, we have always known that non-task communication - discussion that's not directly relevant to the negotiation process - is important for closing a deal."
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emotional states in subjects and found that angry people trusted the least, and happy people trusted the most, and sad people were in between. They found that "emotions which are irrelevant to the judgment task . influence trust judgments in predictable ways." "Predictable" is the key phrase here, because it gives us power. When we're negotiating with someone, we want to control as many of the variables leading to a "yes" as possible.
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show you. I've seen it "proven conclusively" both ways.
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the facts, but studies show, and common sense affirms, that emotions play a role, and one that you can't afford to ignore. How can developing your emotional intelligence help you succeed? Here are some examples:
Software · The savvy businessman across the table wears a mask to conceal his emotions so he'll have the advantage in the negotiation. Can you read the telltale nonverbal signals? Some nonverbal reactions that are very informative, such as the Adam's Apple Jump, are beyond conscious control.
Hard Drives · You must choose one of two candidates for the next head of regional sales and their ability to perform will make or break your company this year. Can you keep a clear head about their qualifications and expertise and not be swayed by the subtle and not-so-subtle maneuvers they perform to induce you to choose them?
Electronics · You're a fundraiser and you know who you want to ask for
the funds, and how you're going to do it, but do you know
when? Can you tell when they're in the right frame of mind?
Canon · Time has run out and you must go in right now and ask for
the raise. You know your boss is angry because your
associate just lost a contract/sad because her son just got turned down at Harvard. Do you know it's important to change her mood, and do you know how to do it?
Desktop Pc · He's trying to sell you the car and you've had the best
hour you've had for weeks. He's made you laugh, he's complimented you, and you're feeling great. In other words, he's a master at "non-task communication." Are you aware of what's going on emotionally? Are you able to hold the line on the good times and make a rational decision about this car and this price? Studies show that if you're aware of the emotional factors you can manage around them.
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